Potential Danger Signals in Grief Reactions

1. When someone feels he is no longer of value as a person.
2. When he/she acts in a manner inconsistent with his usual behavior.
3. When he/she makes veiled threats as self-destruction.
4. When he/she makes dramatic gestures through superficial attempts.
5. When he/she exhibits anti-social behavior.
6. When excessive hostility is demonstrated.
7. When he/she engages in excessive drinking.
8. When he/she is extremely moody.
9. When he/she withdraws completely and no longer interacts with others.
10. When he/she is fleeing reality by sudden decisions to flee to remote places.

You can find this list from C. Charles Bachmann in Dr. Baker’s book, “Equipping the Church with Grief Ministry Skills.”